Well, it is Monday night (well actually early Tuesday morning) and I just got bqack from a night working at the club. I have a horrible head cold and sore throat. I felt it coming on all weekend and with the lack of sleep, over-excitement, and adrenaline rush, I woke up this morning practically unable to lift my head. Now with lots of cold meds and hot tea in me, I had one busy day. I wish I could rest more, but I was blessed with no such luck. I got my new car from the dealership (the only exciting part of my day) and then worked a night at the club….just what I want to be doing…NOT.

This weekend I had a blast at my first SSNY party.

My weekend went as follows, Friday night I drove to Lisa’s house in CT. We had a good night with some light spanking (didn’t want to be marked before the huge party) and got to sleep around midnight…..well I did, I was fast asleep before her. I already had a sore throat…grrrrr. Saturday morning we took the metro North into Grand Central station and was greeted by Lisa’s long time friend, Steve, who is such a gentleman and sweet man. He helped us get to our hotel and leave our bags off and then off we all went to Canal street for some shopping.

I love all the knock off brand names stuff, especially the purses. I bought one for my mother, as she had requested it, and a very real looking coach bag for me…..which I kept protesting “But, it is real!” to Lisa which annoyed her….lol. She also bought me a really cute ring with hearts on it.

After we crammed as much shopping as we could into our day, we had a quick bite to eat and went back to the hotel to get ready for our big night. Once we were dressed and ready…we took a few photos in our beautiful dresses.

We made a fashionably late entrance as none of us had written down the address and were going off of a general location…which I warn you is not a good idea. We eventually made it to the party only 45 minutes late.

I was super excited to see my Punished Brats friends and ran up to Pixie with such enthusiasm and gave her the biggest hug.

We chatted for a bit and then I scurried over to the Punished Brats table and gave Davis Pierson such a big hug and he even lifted me in the air for it. I had missed them so very much and consider them part of my family. I am so excited that I will be with them all again soon for my well overdue shoot. However, I was not off the hook for them having to postpone my last shoot…as I was under the weather and terribly marked up from my month on the west coast. David gave me a spanking for that. It was my first time being spanked by David actually.

I wanted to be ready for my huge debut of being spanked by a man on camera and I will do this next weekend with David.

I also saw my good friend Richard Windsor….who I had wanted to play with, but there just wasn’t enough time for all I wanted to do it seemed.
Kate James.

One of the most important and long awaited moments also happened that night. I finally got to meet and be over the knee of the lovely and mesmerizing Tasha Lee from Bum Rap productions. She was the first person I confided in about my spanking fetish and helped to make me feel more comfortable weith myself through many exchanged messages online. We were writing almost everyday years back and it is because of her I was able to come out as a spanko and believe in who I was and persue to talk about my fetish with others and join the video scene.

More new people I met were Ian the London Tanner

and the super adorable Chester, a male spanking model who can be seen on Miss Audrey Spanks.

…And yes I did spank him in our hotel room after the party. My first time spanking a guy and who knew it could be so fun. But, don’t get any ideas guys….it was a one time thing to try and see what it is like. Maybe it will come up in my future more one day, but for now…don’t ask me to spank you if you are a guy.

I really branched out and discovered parts of myself that I never knew existed.

And he got me back after…boo hoo (NOT!)

And of course a spanking party would not be complete without a public spanking from Lisa, my mentor and Top.

More stories to come later…..